Medical
Encounter
It is rare to find a book designed not only to evoke personal emotion
and reflection and provide insight but also to teach a skill. Facing
Death is such a book. Bertman’s style is conversational and gives
the reader a real flavor of how she conducts her seminars. Every page
is filled with visual or written images that constantly remind us that
dealing with death challenges the mind and tears at the soul but, ultimately,
is an affair of the heart [O.J. Sahler, M.D. Professor
of Pediatrics, Psychiatry, University of Rochester School of Medicine
Medical Encounter A Publication of the American Academy on Physician
and Patient Volume 11 No. 1, 1994]
Annals
of Internal Medicine
Bertman’s book made me regret that I and so many other doctors
had missed her insights into the mystery, misery, and mastery of grief.
Students presented with these insights may discern what practitioners
take decades to learn, if ever they do.
[Frederick R. Abrams, MD, Center for Applied Biomedical
Ethics, Rose Medical Center, Denver, CO) 15 MAY, 1992]
Nursing
Times
It is hard to know what to praise most. The writing is perceptive, caring,
insightful, helpful and challenging. The illustrations, poems, quotations
and paintings afford insights into terminal illness and death that textbooks
and lectures never could on their own….The three sections of the
book are uniformly superb….It should be a criminal offence for
nurses to be educated or to practice without having access to this book.
[Philip Darbyshire, RNMH, RSCN, Dtp, RNT, February 19,
VOL 88, NO 8, 1992]
Journal
of Palliative Care
No printed work alone can convey the power of Sandra Bertman’s
book Facing Death: Images, Insights and Interventions. The subheading
indicated the range of the book’s content, but it is primarily
the images that reach deep into the reader’s being and stimulate
a response. This first-person experience makes Facing Death a unique
resource. As is common with other good materials on death, the reader
of this book is given useful interventions and insights from the author’s
vast experience and from reports of those with whom she has worked.
Here, however, the reader can not help but move from objective observer
of information to active participant. The variety, intensity, and visual
potency of the images chosen by Bertman reach beyond the cognitive processes
and stimulate personal reaction, reflection, and insight. Written in
a highly readable style, each of the book’s four chapters contains
valuable information. The material is readily accessible to anyone interested
in helping others through their grief by first opening themselves to
learning more about death…. [Autumn, 1995]
The
Psychologist
This was an amazing book to read. Beautifully written with true insight
into the nature of loss and bereavement. The use of art and literary
work has a powerful impact, an impact that is conveyed throughout the
book…. guidelines for facilitators on the use of art and literary
works, and guidelines for those involved in bereavement care. [5(8)
1992]
CHOICE
This anthology of techniques and resources should be on the shelf of
all therapists, counselors, social workers, nurses, clergy, physicians,
etc., who find themselves providing support to those who grieve. The
stories, readings, photography, sculpture, and poetry are not just for
the clinician—they are meant to be shared with clients and other
colleagues who are facing grief. By addressing creativity as a form
of therapy, the book forces readers to recognize that not everyone needs
to experience five stages of grief, not everyone needs to “process”
or “work through” their grief to achieve “closure,”
and not everyone needs to express anger in response to grief. Whereas
most readers may be aware of the therapeutic benefits of working on
a project such as an AIDs quilt, fewer are likely to be familiar with
the use of remembrance photographs, gravestone rubbings, or the powerful
sculpture of Nancy Fried as a means of securing solace. Recommended
for all audiences, including undergraduate collections supporting psychology
curriculum. [R.B. Stewart, Jr., Oakland University, PSYCHOLOGY,
SOCIAL & BEHAVIORAL SCIENCES, October 1999 Vol. 37 No. 2]
Robert
Kastenbaum, PhD
In her writings, personal appearances, and medial creations, Bertman
lays everything on the line. She does not hide behind generalizations,
cliches, or statistics. Her audiences know that they are in contact
with somebody who is facing the real issues honestly, in detail, and
without simplification.” [Professor of Gerontology,
Arizona State University, Editor, Omega]
Eric
Cassell, MD
There is a profoundly human quality to Bertman’s work that makes
her use of even well known paintings, photographs, and other images
fresh and to the point. Her words help us understand what the images
do for us and for our patients.
A cherished book that captures the essence of palliative care.
[2001]
Hannelore
Wass, PhD
Bertman shares an approach to helping us cope with death and grief that
draws upon the arts and humanities, an approach she pioneered. On almost
every other page we find artistic, literary, or pop-culture images of
death, loss, and suffering that have a profound effect on us evoking
many different thoughts, stirring emotions, including laughter, and
causing us to pause and reflect. This book is a valuable resource for
those who want to complement and enrich their scientific knowledge.
It is indispensable for the death educator.” [Professor
Emeritus, University of Florida; Founding Editor, Death Studies ]
Nick
Hughes
The book is intended to “refuel therapists, counsellors, social
workers, physicians, nurses, clergy, and all others who are committed
to providing support to those in grief” (p1) and to provide a
“resource for patients and clients to find a way to quiet their
own suffering” (p7). The range of material is impressive and the
variety of contributors gives a forceful reminder that grief is everyone’s
business. [Nic Hughes. Macmillan Lecturer, University
of Leeds, UK]